....end of semester...:P

alhamdulillah i juz finish my examination papers.. argh...feel free rite now... no more stress.. no more have to read lots of books.. i can sleep and dreaming peacely without wake up in the nite... gosh.. everything done.... now juz thinking holiday and holiday...hahaha.... this coming friday i'll go terengganu for anak angkat program... can't wait.. hehehe... actually this program is organized my faculty in s.alam but have my member invite me and maria to join together... thanks friend.... tomorrow i'll pack my beg put cloths and everything coz 2morrow i'll back home n the next day go s.alam.. very tight schedule rite? but i think thats fun holiday with something to do.. rather juz sit and watch tv at home...hehehe...

i tend to do...

when i am under stress i tend to do;-

1. sleep, sleep,sleep
2. eat,eat and eat
3. screaming as loud as i can
4.sleep again
5.eat again...

hahaha.. i am under strees rite now... stress with my final exam... im not perform well.... hope have miracle for me.... hmm... but the most thing that i always do is pray... hope Allah give the best for me....insyaAllah

How to Be a SuccessfuL musLim wiFe

1. Use your 'Fitnah' (beauty and overtures of allurement) to win the heart of your husband.
All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah - Azza wa Jal - has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband.

2. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting.
Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him.

3. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them
The Qur'an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to 'enlarge' them, and sing to your husband.

4. Always wear jewellery and dress up in the house.
From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur'an. As a wife, continue to use the jewellery that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband.

5. Joke and play games with your husband.
A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humour. As Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - told Jabir to marry someone who would make him laugh and he would make her laugh.

6. Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does. Then thank him again.
This is one of the most important techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hellfire.

7. An argument is a fire in the house. Extinguish it with a simple 'I'm sorry' even if it is not your fault.
When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, "Look, I'm sorry. Let's be friends."

8. Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah.
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - taught us that any women who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So .. please him.

9. Listen and Obey!
Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him that right and respect.

10. Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful.All good things are from Allah. Never forget to ask Allah ta'ala for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on - by the Mercy of Allah ta'ala - into Jannah

.......hope can become a gud wife for lovely husband....

....Be StroNg dudE....

aiyak.. i feel something hit to me... i never felt this feeling before... oh God... i hope that person understand... final exam is around and everytime when i wanna study, i saw that person in my mind, on my books, on the wall.... argh... and lastly i close my books... sleep is the best way.. eventhough i was explained to that person but im still feel guilty.... people said 'sape makan cili, die la yang terase pedas'.. but for me, i dun think so.. even though im not totally wrong but i still feel guilty..why huh? i did doa, hope that person know that im not wrong, and hope Allah will help me to solve it...i always bear in my mind the power of this word.. "everything happens, dont give up and sad.. there must be something hidden.. only Allah knows what is the best for us...be strong!".. so i try manage this problems...hope it work!

Sepi Seorang Perindu....cont'd

"Aisyah, kau tak tidur lagi?. Esokkan kau ade taklimat. nanti lambat bangun pulak". Hani rakan serumah Aisyah mengingatkan tentang hari esok. Ya, baru Aisyah teringat hari esok ada taklimat tentang cara berdepan dengan mereka yang mempunyai penyakit gangguan emosi yang tinggi atau lebih senang dengan pangilan pesakit mental. Tapi Aisyah tidak suka dengan panggilan itu apa entah lagi dengan panggilan gila...

"Terima kasih Hani, aku memang terlupa langsung". Hani hanya tersenyum. Hani tahu segalanya..tahu segala perihal Aisyah.. kerana itu dia memberitahu Aisyah tentang taklimat ini. Bukan niat untuk menyinggung Aisyah. Sekelumit pun tidak... tapi untuk kebaikan Aisyah juga agar Aisyah mampu untuk berdepan dengan masalah yang dihadapinya.

Kalau tidak kerana Hani yang memberitahu tentang taklimat ini beberapa hari yang lepas, mungkin Aisyah tidak tahu tentang adanya taklimat ini.


"Aisyah, tadi aku ada baca surat khabar, ada satu taklimat tentang cara-cara berhadapan dengan orang yang mempunyai gangguan emosi yang tinggi, kau tak nak pergi?". sebelum mencadangkan kepada Aisyah, Hani sudah berfikir banyak kali.... Niatnya hanya satu, untuk membantu temannya.

Aisyah hanya melepas pandang. Tiada sebarang jawapan. Hani sudah dapat meneka, pasti Aisyah berasa tersinggung...

"Aku bukan nak singgung perasaan kau, tapi ini untuk kebaikan kau.. supaya kau lebih tabah... Maafkan aku Aisyah kalau aku menyinggung perasaan kau".

"Tak.... kau tak perlu minta maaf bahkan aku yang perlu minta maaf. Kau banyak menolong aku...".

"Jadi, kau nak pergi taklimat ni? kalau kau nak, aku boleh tolong registerkan... kita pergi sama-sama. Boleh?"

Aisyah hanya mengangguk...hani membalas dengan senyuman...

the beauty in ugly...

-Json Mraz- the Beauty in Ugly-

She’s so big hearted

But not so remarkable Just an ordinary humble girl

Expecting nothing as we’re made to think

It’s a pretty person’s world

But you are beautiful

And you better go show it

So go look again

You gotta be true to your own

If you really wanna go to the top

Do you really wanna win

Don’t believe in leaving normal

Just to satisfy demand

Well if you wanna get free

And if you wanna do the passionate thing

And if you wanna get smart

For the sake of your heart and all

You should own your name

And stand up tall and get real

And see the beauty in ugly

Well you are fresh

Your face is fabulous

Don’t forget you’re one of a kind

When nobody’s checking the deeds you’ve done

And nobody’s hearing your cries

You make all the fashion statements

Just by dressing up your mind And if you wanna get free

And if you wanna do the passionate thing

And if you wanna get smart

For the sake of your heart and all

You should own your name

And stand up tall and get real

And see the beauty in ugly

And see the beauty in ugly

Well if you wanna get free

And if you wanna do the passionate thing

And if you wanna get smart

For the sake of your heart and all

You should own your name

And stand up tall and get real

And see the beauty in ugly And see the beauty in ugly

hm... dun judge a book by its cover... dun judge a person by its appeareance eventhough appearance potrays everything... but know 1st the person and then u can judge that person.... in simple word dont make hasty generalization or jump into conclusion....:P

Sepi Seorang Perindu..

'perempuan diciptakan dari tulang rusuk kiri lelaki, bukan untukditendang, dicerca dan bukan juga juga untuk diseksa, tetapi untuk disayangi, dikasihi, dicintai kerana itu ianya terletak dekat dengan hati....'

Aisyah menutup buku "Kasih seorang Wanita" yang baru dibelinya tadi... fikiranya menerawang lagi. Ya, perempuan itu terlalu tinggi darjatnya bagi lelaki yang cuba menganiaya perempuan yang tidak berdosa. Aisyah masih lagi ingat kata-kata ustazahnya semasa di sekolah menengah dulu....Antara ayah dan ibu siapa yang lebih disanjung dan jawapannya adalah ibu....Ah... pengorbanan ibu terlalu banyak...

selama 9 bulan ibu mengandungkan seorang anak, betapa siksanya untuk melahirkan seorang anak, bertarung dengan maut hanya kerana seorang anak, sehingga mati itu mati syahid... adakah itu tidak cukup untuk dikira pengorbanan yang sangat besar?

Terima kasih ibu, terima kasih emak, terima kasih umi, terima kasih mama atas pengorbanan yang sangat besar....

Hati Aisyah tidak sabar menunggu esok....setiap hari dia tidak sabar untuk menanti hari esok untuk menemui ibu yang tercinta.... walaupun ibunya tidak mengerti, namun Aisya tidak kisah dengan itu semua... yang penting setiap hari dia akan meluangkan satu waktu untuk ibunya....
to be continue